7 Best Relationship Advice Books for Men

Every man sometimes comes to obstacles in his dating life, or finds himself stumbling when his relationship begins to fall apart without warning. When it’s already difficult to talk to a woman, whether you’ve known her for years or you’ve only just met, where are you supposed to turn for advice on what to do? How about reading a book?

Here are a few of the top relationship advice books written for men who are trying to attract and maybe even fall for the opposite sex. Whatever you need to learn about dating a woman, you will likely find it in one of these books written just for you.

1. The Secret Life of Men: A Practical Guide to Helping Men Discover Health, Happiness and Deeper Personal Relationships by Steve Biddulph


Before you can truly be in a relationship that will last, you first need to learn how to be happy all on your own. Steve Biddulph’s The Secret Life of Men is your ultimate guide to taking care of yourself in the ways that matter. Find happiness, get healthy and learn the art of forming and maintaining personal relationships that will last a lifetime. Once you have learned how to truly care for yourself, You can then learn how to take better care of a woman you love.

2. The Elite Way: 10 Rules Men Must Know in Order to Deal with Women by Tariq Elite Nasheed


Whether you know it or not, dating is all about strategy. Like a sport, there are rules, and if you don’t know how to play by the rules, there is no way you are going to be able to win the game, or the girl. In this down to the point read, Nasheed gives you 10 rules you need to follow in order to handle women. Study and learn the rules, and you will have a much higher chance of winning over the woman you hope will fall for you. It’s a no-nonsense approach to dating, which may be exactly what you need to hear.

3. AskMen.com Presents the Guy’s Guide to Romance: The 11 Rules for Finding a Woman and Making Her Happy by James Bassil


Relationships are partnerships, meaning it takes a mutual understanding in order to make romance work out in the end for the both of you. This guide takes you through the various stages of dating and shows you how to give a girl everything she wants, and how to convince her to give you everything you want in return. If you’ve never been in a serious long-term relationship before, this is a great read. It can be difficult to know what women want without asking directly, and why do that when you can get all your answers from a book and then go out and impress her later?

4. Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants: Timeless Wisdom on Being a Man by Elliott Katz


Communication, or lack thereof, is often what causes romantic relationships between men and women to crumble. You both might want different things, or even the same thing, but you don’t know how to communicate with one another emotionally, verbally or physically. This book is the man’s guide to giving his woman what she wants. It is an honest look at why it seems like some women are so hard to please, when in reality, you’re just not doing the right things to fully please them yet.

5. How to Be the Man Women Want: The Get More Confidence and Meet Better Women Guide to Dating by Ronny Miller


What is holding you back from going after the woman you really want? There’s always something keeping you from making a move, and that is what this guide is going to help you overcome. Whether you are hesitant because you don’t have enough confidence in yourself or you just don’t know how to find the kind of women you are interested in being with, this is a book that understands where you are coming from, and its goal is to get you to where you want to be: happy and in a relationship that will last.

6. Finding the Right Woman for You: One Woman’s Advice to Men by Michelle McKinney Hammond


What better person to get dating advice about women from a woman? McKinney is more than just a woman: she happens to be a relationship expert, and she wrote this book specifically for the single guys out there who don’t seem to have a clue how to figure out how dating women works. A woman knows exactly what is frustrating you most, and can explain to you how to overcome your roadblocks to dating women and find one that you can love and keep for the rest of your life.

7. The Art of the Approach: The A Game Guide to Meeting Beautiful Women by Logan Edwards


Before you can really get a woman to want to know you better, you first have to get her to notice you – and notice that you are into her, and she should be into you, too. Pickup artist Logan Edwards gets how tough it can be to make a first impression on a woman you’ve never met, which is why he created this guide to help you learn how to approach women in a way that will make them unable to forget you, ever. You won’t regret picking this one up, especially if you find you can never seem to say the right thing, say it the right way or use the right body language to get a woman’s attention.

If it helps, keep in mind that women are often struggling with the same things you are. They want to understand and communicate with you, but when both sides are trying and failing to make it work, you can turn to the advice of experts who know exactly where the both of you might be missing the mark. Guys, if she hands you one of these books without saying a word, pay close attention.